Saturday, January 17, 2009

所謂的曾經,就是幸福 (很感人)

Annie (my cousin) sent me this short story which touched me a lot and wish to share, appreciate everyone around us and no regret later.

中午,我站在學校大門口當交通導護,幫助一年級的小朋友放學。
卓新勇的母親,悄手悄腳提著一個便當在校門口。 被我一喊,她露出不好意思的表情。
「老師啊!...」
「哎呀!我不是跟妳講了嗎?學校不喜歡家長替孩子送便當。
如果每個媽媽都像妳這樣,學校大門就擠滿了人,那樣,我們怎麼放學呢?」
「我知道!我知道!」哼!知道了還送,簡直是明知故犯。
「妳不會讓他自己帶便當嗎!」
「我知道!我知道!」這些話,不曉得說了幾次。
每次一到中午,送便當的家長和放學的一年級小朋友,常常相撞在一起,造成相當的困擾。

卓新勇是一位沈默寡言,乖巧內向的孩子。
有次上課,他竟然打瞌睡,我很訝異,把他叫起來。
「怎麼了?」他一臉迷惘站起來,不回答。
第二天上課,也是這樣,我實在受不了,狠狠地把他叫過來。
「你到底怎麼了?」
我已經氣得半死,口氣已經控制不住。
突然,他垂頭淌下淚水。我暗自一驚。
「說呀!到底為什麼上課要打瞌睡呢?」
我媽媽住院了!昨天一直在醫院陪她。」
我一聽愣住了,頓時,心中的怒氣消失了,代之而起的是無限慚愧,「她為什麼住院呢?」
「是肺癌!」我一聽,心都涼到腳底。
心中想到身體贏弱的卓新勇。
如果,不幸那天來臨,他將如何繼續往後漫長的歲月呢?
想到這兒,不禁鼻酸。吃飯時,妻子在餵兒子吃飯,
我不禁想起,以前卓新勇的母親偷偷摸摸替他送便當。

第二天下班後,我騎著機車到醫院探望他母親。
幾個禮拜沒見,卓新勇的母親瘦得不成人形,蒼白的臉,光禿的頭,簡直不敢相信就是她。
她看到我,顯得很驚訝,努力想站起來,但是,一咳嗽,整個人歪了一邊。
「不要站起來!不要站起來!」
「老師!謝﹍﹍謝謝你!」她吃力喊著,眼眶消出淚水。
在醫院的走廊,卓新勇的父親對我說:「只剩下兩個月了!嗚!我﹍真的不知要怎麼辦?」他老淚縱橫。

回到學校,報告校長。
「他爸爸已經六十多歲了,現在母親又將離開人間,是不是我們可以發動全校募款。不管多少,都可以幫助他。」校長爽快答應。
經過幾天募款活動,我們總算募到五萬二千一百二十元。
把錢送到醫院時,卓新勇的母親已經在昏迷中。
「我們準備今天送他回家!」卓新勇的父親,臉形憔悴得發白。我一聽,心頭抽搐一陣。
「老師!能不能幫個忙?」
「請說!我能夠做到的,我一定答應。」
「他前幾天,一直拉著卓新勇的手,喊著:媽媽不能再替你送便當了!我想,請老師再讓她送最後一次便當,只有送便當時,他才真正感受到一位為人母親的榮耀。」 聽到這兒,我百感交集地點點頭。

中午,一輛救護車呼拉拉開到學校大門口。
卓親勇的父親和一名醫護人員,推著擔架上的人。
我淚水盈眶,站在旁邊,伴當交通導護老師。
「到了!到了!」卓新勇的父親買了一個便當,躺在擔架上的卓新勇的母親,伸出瘦細蒼白的手提著便當,在旁邊人員推送下,慢慢靠近大門口的鐵門。
在鐵門的另一邊,卓新勇伸出右手,接過母親的便當。
「媽!」卓新勇嚎啕大哭。
這時,我清楚見到她母親瘦削的臉頰,抽搐了一下,彷彿想說話,但是,又說不出來。
「媽!我不要!我不要妳走!」卓新勇呼天搶地叫著。
我的淚水,再也控制不住,嘩嘩而落。我暗恨自己,以前是多麼殘忍!

隔天,卓新勇的母親就去世了。
卓新勇的母親出殯後。
一天, 卓新勇的父親來到我辦公室,遞給我一包牛皮紙。
老師!這是你和學生們幫助我的錢,我認為還有更多的學生,需要這筆錢,所以,還給你們。謝謝你熱心幫忙。」說完,錢一放,就掉頭離去。
這筆錢彷彿生熱似的,直燙著我心坎。
我天天找卓新勇聊天話家常。深怕他經不起喪母的打擊。
「老師!你放心!我很好!你不要一直替我擔心!」
卓新勇對我說「我很早就知道,我母親就要死了,我也不是不想聽你話,叫媽媽不要送便當。因為,一天當中,只有中午,我才能吃到我媽媽煮的飯。」
我心頭一凜,「為什麼呢?」
她很虛弱,家裡都是爸爸在煮飯。只有中午爸爸不在,她才能偷偷背著爸爸煮飯。是她堅持要送便當的。」說完,卓新勇淌出淚水。

很感人吧!我看到一半就忍不住眼淚就掉下來了!
各位~趁著父母健在的時候,好好的孝順他們喔!
不然........將來後悔也就來不及了!
一直以為幸福在遠方,在可以追逐的未來。
我的雙眼保持著眺望,我的雙耳仔細聆聽,唯恐疏忽錯過。
後來才發現---那些握過的手,唱過的歌,流過的淚,愛過的人......
所謂的曾經,就是幸福

當我們用心對人時,有心人將以熱情回報你,希望我們都是用心的人,也是有心的人.

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Appreciate what we have

A friend sent me an email as below and I would love to share with everyone.

Optimistics Quietness Wordliness

Lion

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Is time to drink water

I have heard of a very educational information from radio recently and wish to share.

As we know, brain and nerve cells do not re-grow once died. The more it died the slower our reaction is, less bright we are, etc.

When our body dehydrated then it will send a message to brain and that is the time we feel thirsty. Dehydration will cause the death of brain cells, so don’t wait till you feel thirsty only drink water.

Now, tumbler is always with me as I’ve caused lots of damage to my brain cells before this and hope from now on I could save what’s left. :)

Monday, January 12, 2009

Special treated candle light vigil

Last night as usual, went for a peaceful gathering at PJ Civic Center. All this while it is just a peaceful gathering and nothing “wrong” have we done. But, last night a big group of policemen, special branch officers, FRU, and even OCPD were there and asking us to disperse, reason given was “you are having illegal meeting”.

Guys, just imagine, all this while we are having a small gathering in a private property with permission given by the owner and yet we were asked to disperse for such a weird reason. Where is our RIGHT as Malaysian?!

Again if you are having a Chinese New Year, Raya or Deepavali gathering at home, and suddenly a big group of policemen of about 200 of them come and ask you to disperse as you are having an “illegal gathering”, what would you think?! This is a real ridiculous case where I really have to re-look into my RIGHT as a Malaysian!

More reports and pictures on this at,

Mandarin version,

http://sanjiun.wordpress.com/2009/01/11/pj-no-to-isa-vigil-110109/

English version,

http://kkitsam.wordpress.com/

Help us to have a better Malaysia

  

We have put in order in getting some products to be sold to public in raising some fund to be used in various ways. Details about this is in www.harapannegara.blogspot.com 

We are still waiting for the products to be ready, meanwhile I will share some pictures of the products we have ordered. I will update the pricing for each item once we have finalized it. Support us in helping our country to grow better and we have contributed our bit, hope you too!

All products is printed with “Harapan Negara – Anak Bangsa Malaysia”.

Cutie Egg Shape Alarm Clock

 

Harapan Negara - C004

 

Penta Highlighter & Globe Memo Clip

S35 S19

Print

Cutie Memo Clip & Sonic Ball Pen

S18

708

Harapan Negara - S18 + Sonic Pen

   

Handy Manicure Set

EZ38 Harapan Negara - EZ38

Executive Leather Note Book 

S16%20

Print

Trendy Sticky Memo Box

S20

Harapan Negara - S20

We are open to bulk buyers who are interested to sponsor the products to certain NGOs or organisations.

Please e-mail Lucius at wei0204@yahoo.com

Thank you in advance for the support for Anak Bangsa Malaysia. Think of the future of your children and let us create a better place for them. :)

Pictures of the MV shooting on the 2nd of January

 

I have downloaded some pictures taken during the MV shooting on the 2nd of this month. It was fun and good experience, and it was my second video shooting in life. Haa…

At Setia Alam park,

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At a vegetarian restaurant in Klang.

 

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Drizzling early morning, delayed the progress of the shooting.

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Friday, January 9, 2009

Valentine's Gift

Hi ladies and gentlemen, Valentine's day is just around the corner, not sure what to buy for your love one? Please consider to purchase a custom made facial treatment course for your partner.

The tailor made treatment course is made according to you budget, you can choose type of products to be used, type of services which include facial massage, neck treatment, back treatment, head "gua sa", etc.

Let your partner have a relaxing facial session and meet for Valentine dinner with a glowing and lovely face!

Thursday, January 8, 2009

Harapan Negara

Recently a bit busy as besides doing facial treatments and weight loss program, Pete and me are into setting up a new company. The nature of the new company is to sell some products in raising some funds in hoping to contribute to the community. The branding we are to brand is called “Harapan Negara”, by contributing our bits in hoping to have a better tomorrow for Malaysia.

We are looking for sponsors who are sincerely wanted to contribute to contact us at 012-905 9948 (Peter Chong) or 012-670 9385 (Lucius Teh).

You can visit www.harapannegara.blogspot.com for more info on what is this about.

Now we are in the process of registering the company and ordering products to be sold.

Your support is most welcome…

Monday, January 5, 2009

Busy Schedule

Went for my second shooting in life on the 2nd of January, woke up as early as quarter to four in the morning to get myself ready. Reached Setia Alam at about six and it was drizzling, so the whole shooting team went for breakfast at a coffee shop there.

It took longer to finish and everyone got sun tanned at the end, it was Aunty Karen’s birthday so she brought us to a vegetarian restaurant in Klang for lunch. The dishes were presented well and very tasty indeed. It was a real long day and finally back home with tired and exhausted body.

Recently I am working on the “Harapan Negara” project, setting up a brand new company in hoping to raise some fund for community work. Will update more on the recent schedule… :)

I have created a new webpage for facial courses too, do visit to know more on what kind of facial treatments I provide, www.freewebs.com/treatface

Thursday, January 1, 2009

Happy New Year 2009

Happy New year world!

Looking back to year 2008, it was a year full of self improvement, happiness, and transformation. Those who knows me well would know why I said so… :)

Anyway, I had a good one year of preparation in equipped me well in proceeding to another stage in life,

New year resolution is surely to do better in a whole new year and achieve my target as planned.

Lastly, world peace!